Erin Andrews: NFL Sidelines, Setbacks, & Surrogacy
NFL sideline reporter Erin Andrews discusses her groundbreaking career in sports broadcasting, her journey through infertility and surrogacy to become a mother, and her experience surviving a serious privacy violation. She emphasizes the importance of hard work, persistence, and not accepting 'no' as a final answer while sharing candid insights about motherhood, marriage, and building her clothing line.
Summary
Erin Andrews joins Alex Cooper on Call Her Daddy to discuss her multifaceted life as an NFL sideline reporter, entrepreneur, podcast host, and mother. She reflects on her early career in hockey broadcasting with the Tampa Bay Lightning, her transition to ESPN, and how she landed her current role by showing up to a bar to network with ESPN broadcasters during the Atlanta Thrasher's playoff run. Andrews emphasizes that her success came from saying yes to everything early in her career when she had no commitments and from working harder than her male counterparts to prove she belonged in a male-dominated industry.
The conversation shifts to a deeply personal topic: Andrews' experience with a stalker who filmed her in her hotel room without consent. She describes the immediate aftermath—learning about the videos from a friend, the public's misconception that she had leaked them herself, and the subsequent FBI investigation that led to the stalker's arrest. Andrews discusses the psychological toll, including shame and fear that her career was over, but notes that throwing herself back into work on the football field became her safe space. She credits supportive colleagues and family, particularly her father, for helping her navigate this violation.
Andrews discusses her journey to motherhood, which proved far more complicated than anticipated. After marrying NHL player Jarrett Stoll (whom she met through Michael Strahan), the couple tried to conceive naturally but faced significant challenges. Andrews underwent approximately nine to ten rounds of IVF with limited success, and then was diagnosed with cervical cancer, which required surgery that removed her cervix. Her doctor recommended surrogacy as the safest path to motherhood. After losing embryos with their first surrogate, Andrews and Stoll successfully had their son Mac through surrogacy. She emphasizes the emotional toll of infertility and the importance of talking openly with partners and friends rather than keeping the struggle private.
The interview covers her current roles: hosting the game show '99 to Beat' with Ken Jeong, co-hosting the 'Calm Down' podcast with Carissa Thompson, and running her clothing line 'Wear by Aaron Andrews,' which addresses the lack of stylish game-day wear for women. Andrews discusses the physical demands of sideline reporting, including wearing flats instead of heels due to the hazardous field conditions, and shares behind-the-scenes stories like the famous Richard Sherman post-game interview during the NFC Championship. She reflects on motherhood with her three-year-old son, describing the challenges of balancing her demanding career with parenting responsibilities, including the less glamorous aspects like helping him use public restrooms.
About this episode
Join Alex in the studio for an interview with Erin Andrews. Erin opens up about building her career in the male-dominated world of sports and the lessons she's learned along the way. She also reflects on the devastating violation of privacy she experienced, her long journey with IVF and surrogacy, and becoming a mom. Enjoy!
Key Insights
- Andrews credits her early career success to saying yes to everything when she had no other commitments, which helped her build diverse experience and visibility in sports broadcasting.
- Andrews did not initially notice the lack of women in sports broadcasting because she was focused on doing the job well rather than on her gender or the industry's demographics.
- When falsely accused by the public of leaking her own intimate videos, Andrews felt shame and believed her career was over, demonstrating how victim-blaming affects women's self-perception even when they are clearly violated.
- Andrews' primary coping mechanism after her privacy violation was to throw herself back into work on the football field, which she describes as her 'safe space' despite the public nature of the venue.
- Andrews underwent approximately nine to ten rounds of IVF before being diagnosed with cervical cancer, after which doctors recommended surrogacy because her cervix would not be able to sustain a pregnancy.
- Andrews' first surrogacy resulted in pregnancy loss, which she describes as a significant emotional challenge that made the journey more complicated than anticipated.
- Andrews emphasizes that infertility and surrogacy struggles should not be kept private between partners but shared with trusted friends and family to avoid emotional damage to the relationship.
- Andrews describes herself as someone who 'doesn't take no lightly' and figures out alternative ways to achieve her goals, which she identifies as both a fault and the primary driver of her professional and personal success.
- Andrews works significantly harder than she believes male counterparts do in sports broadcasting because she didn't play the sport she covers and feels she must prove her belonging.
- Andrews experiences significant anxiety about on-air mistakes and still gets nervous before her first hit during broadcasts, despite decades of experience.
- Hockey players, according to Andrews' observation, are more laid-back and down-to-earth than NFL players, often coming from small towns and farms.
- Andrews created her clothing line 'Wear by Aaron Andrews' because there was a gap in the market for stylish, team-appropriate wear for women attending games.
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